Many people ask how to train, and then write a thing
other daughter has always wanted to test high-end and then write a thing, not a description of experience,UGG shoes, but to summarize lessons learned. Can be high test actually has got the city first (third in the province), say is the In fact this thing
the parents of a little inspiration in high school, high school or less, or more before a practical.
high school parents, one word: tired. Two words: very tired.
kids in high school, we did not feel that the number of heart operations, however, a high school is not the same.
my daughter is entering high school as in the Kaozhuang Yuan, and tell the truth, glad of course is there but under great pressure. In the application, the principals and senior officers received us. It was said half in jest: Three years after the test a high Kaozhuang Yuan! I said in the past Kaozhuang Yuan, no one is a high Kaozhuang Yuan, especially girls, on the high school grades will be down. They may not have thought I was so calm, paused, grade team leader said that although they are not high Kaozhuang Yuan, but the exam are pretty good.
I said what I worry about. Entrance examinations for the first time, the campus will have a legend of her: only a half-hour math test to carry out an assignment of the (test time is two hours), is too much! I heard later, asked her daughter, is not it, daughter, where I pay half an hour earlier volumes.
Thus she became the target of everyone concerned about her, and this environment, she can bear it?
some social activities should not affect the learning
say that the first topic, because there is one thing we were impressed. Daughter, high school, not school, it is military training, followed by the students turn in an Days, she graduated from high school just eighteen years old, at all? The results, opening soon, the school informed her on the party lectures. Gave lectures on nothing, the problem is time and gave lectures biology class conflict. We say, students learn the main lesson can not be delayed. Daughter said nothing, look at the book on the line. The result is three to five weeks off, she did not understand the biology class. I think they pretty good year biological and want counseling her, and took books, dumbfounded, thin book, mostly pictures, and content and we had to learn different, do not listen to teacher in the class, there is I can not understand. Please tutoring, right? Daughter said, there is no time, did not need to, biological, after all, Deputy Division. Finally, until the end of this course, she is not interested in biology.
fact, well if she Biology, University of biological engineering and the like on a professional, still very good.
not all do not participate in social activities, there is one thing we support, now appears to be right.
08 early in the day a youth exchange activities, the city selected ten high school students to Japan for ten days. Teachers call parents and ask the same do not agree. This is a learning delay. Before high school and junior high school class is not the same, lack of day is very difficult to make it up the (high school years learning lessons for three years, third year overall review), not to mention the fifth six days (and training and to Beijing travel time), and then come back school is definitely not keep up with progress. Have a parent there is no agreement, but we agreed, because after all, an eye-opener to go abroad in high school, the developed countries feel the humanities, learned far beyond the classroom.
Later they came back from Japan are catching up with mid-term exam, in addition to one or two people, almost annihilated. However, this price must be paid.
addition to this special case, and other social activities with the school if there is a conflict, can not participate would not participate in it.
not that we oppose such activities, on the contrary, in order to avoid the daughter become a Many parents are dry to prevent their children about such things.
some changes you have to adapt
child did in high school, no feeling, heard how the child had come to say how hard, or not. Indeed, before graduating from middle school children, it is easy. In high school, suddenly nervous about, and even more ominously, the original her junior high, there is not something I can counseling, she went to high school, in addition to language, I can not afford counseling her! Also, if I have this capability, I was on the Tsinghua University.
less than six months on the high school, my daughter was hard than before, and the typical performance is getting very late at night, sleep over the past ten o'clock, and now sometimes to twelve, and six in the morning have them, so boil method, how can the body stand it?
her at the same table is also a girl, too hard, and said that when on duty, while sweeping the floor, while reading. I said too much. Daughter is also quite scornful of past students who work hard, now is not, and that to the high school classes in the Olympiad, there are no hard.
to the high bit semester, her daughter go to Japan because of days, drop a lot of classes, exams, she won first place at the same table row, but never won the first daughter. This should have touched her, she, like with that female students become bookworms. No less than recess seat, not to read is homework; night classes do not cafeteria, bring their own dry food to eat in the classroom because the cafeteria delays.
I am against her such a to no avail. This is why many boys does not look very hard, and academic performance is also a good reason. Understand the principle, one hundred pass through all the questions, but nothing more is to be transferred a few bends. Important thing is to be turning, and not practice. However, when the influence of parents on children is far from the influence of teachers and students big, if I say anything, she was classically sentence is: That is, is this kind of atmosphere. You can not change it, you only have to adapt to it.
or not to participate in academic competitions
the daughter of the computer science information, know a few students than her term. These people a great impact on her - their path to college are: first prize in the State to participate in academic competitions, walks students eligible to obtain, and then through independent entrance examination, recommended for admission to college. Such benefits are clear: to be admitted as early as six months, do not participate in high-test; minor subjects without having to spend time to learn.
but this risk is also large. Participate in pre-reviewing for academic competition, and the normal teaching is decoupled, it will seriously affect the course, once the
We are very contradictory. We certainly hope that she will contest winners, and recommended, as early as six months, . .
but this time his daughter has been very stubborn, a bow is no turning back, still clung to take walks this road. While we advice before, but did not stop off and respect her choice.
to high school, the teacher was not happy she go to the contest, and because there is no meaning. Tsinghua University has been decided to give her own admission a Daughter insisted on going, we agreed. First, let her complete the wish, the second is with this qualification, it can from
way to talk about There are some universities, the state allows them to recruit their own good that people, through their selection of school examinations out of question, after selecting two types of treatment: one has walked eligible for direct admission, do not participate in high-test ; the second is to drop some points, to participate in the high test during the event. Such as Tsinghua University, Jiangsu Province, this year, the minimum investment block line is 416 minutes, my daughter has been very down points, as long as the high test results in 406 or more points, they can be admitted, this is just more than an insurance policy, if not to the 406 , or more than 416 points, then it is quite useless.
therefore, can be walked or walks, you can easily half ah.
later walked to her wish to get a qualification, but not high self-enrollment written test and interview points to play well, did not get walks.
three years, many people say, do not worry your baby, and so on. In fact, the good students are good students of the difficulties, huh, huh.
a good teacher is very important
can not credit the property of their homes, in fact, encountered a teacher is very important. Here that a good teacher, does not mean no education masters, academic leaders and the like, but a tolerant person.
daughter three days of class time, a young female teacher, not quite able to take control of their children, but fortunately she did not go to the tube. Before the test, each class is showing that normal honest a lot of naughty children, to her daughter that class, or is the trouble, with no tension. High school senior class, male teachers, about forty, peace, chronic, compared to let go, students are going to New Year's party, participate in games,UGG bailey button, drama rehearsals, etc. in English, is the daughter organization of the class leader, he does not interfere. To know that high how valuable exam time, some teachers do not allow students to participate directly participated also asked them to
daughter to learn late in the night, morning always get up, stepping point into the classroom almost every day, and being late is not unusual, for a class, have already approved this Gouxue monitor nozzle, this teachers just talk, my daughter is not taken seriously, remains unchanged. Later, a family conference, I communicate with the teacher alone, he do any connection with me about being late, and then ask me, is not sleep late? I said yes, very late. He
is a good class atmosphere, teacher of tolerance, a relatively comfortable for her to learn some.
professional issues in high school, I said to want children, high school can be However, in high school really, really can not side branches, which is caused by educational reforms in Jiangsu. Jiangsu High test the implementation of Grade is the double In other words, if the objects are one of two in the South are on the B can not even, not even on the Tsinghua University.
others such as history, geography, (G) _ (governance) and the like, more interesting. High on the test, we could easily, right? The original design of this program think so, reducing the burden you. However, if not test, and the school does not teach and students learn is not the designers think of a method, the eleventh grade Xiankao the four doors, there is an A to test in the high when you add a point, If the four are A to award one point for a total five points. This can not teach, can not learn. However, since these course and still quite high test scores, school to the exam as hard to begin to take the 4 A. Side branches can it?
However, the daughter side branches why I want it? Because she has a tendency to report better professional future, that is, she should have a preference. When self-reported enrollment, a look at Tsinghua University's professional, no one likes her: Tsinghua best professional civil engineering, architecture, she does not like; water system, a place where talent, she does not like; automation or electrical automation, So the thought of learning the complex physical, halo. . . . . .
girl, learn some easy points of it: economic and financial, business management, etc., and not, say that the economy was not interested. Study all day, do not know what to do, a loss of.
high I have direction when the test first, the military, what to major in, I am not; can not go to military school, engineering school, to the factory as an engineer, for which I am still high exam, specially visited several factories to visit.
this message is called Professional aspects of the child selected, I think she was interested in the training is inadequate. College is not the main, future work is the key to the future, what kind of industry, high school should have favored.
She now select the After all, she was in primary school to learn some basic computer stuff, more or less like, What is that, four years later, you can also have a new choice.
educational philosophy to adhere to the
in front of a Chase that nonsense, or talk about something educational philosophy. The stronger than the specific practices. Children in high school, we of her educational philosophy, or the continuation of the past, that is: to encourage the main, go with the flow, and respect her choice.
parents tend to make some decisions for the child, causing the child unhappy; child some decision, ill-considered, how should we do?
child is made eligible for Tsinghua's own admission, but where is so good Tsinghua exam? She has two female students with high her term is also very good, aimed against the Tsinghua University, but never admitted to, one or a county champion, did not score enough. So, to be safe, she would like to report Fudan autonomy. The question is, five-course test Tsinghua, Fudan University ten test course. If you target Fudan University, Tsinghua red, then no problem, review the line ten course, but your goal is to Tsinghua University, and the other five you Kan Bukan? She said no see. I say you do not see, you self-confidence Examination please? That five points is calculated, and the other five are just as important, can reach line? She think about, not sure. I said, to say the least, a self-admitted to Fudan you, you is not on it? She said, I still want to go to Tsinghua University. I said, well, you reported Fudan University, does not necessarily test test too, not the test passed, as Jing Xiaxin, the single-minded examination Tsinghua. Finally, she accepted our proposal and concentrate on test Tsinghua.
course, there she heard us, such as picking a major, we want her to learn, Result, she strongly disagreed, and we did not force her, respect her opinion. There are great things on the port, from the perspective of the future, we hope her to Kong, Hong Kong University reported that her grades are okay, but she was persistent in Tsinghua University,UGGs, we have with her.
to high school, you do not encourage it? Do not praise her or to it? Primary school age if such things are the things, to high school, a bit naive, right? It is not. Example. After the Spring Festival this year, the school mock exams twice monthly exam time, her performance worse than the last, the last test to the whole grade 60, which was never before. After the last parent, my left leg, and this time decided to communicate with the class teacher and ask her situation. Teacher saw me, he kept shaking his head, said the results, it can only be common in this line, the Tsinghua University is not possible. I think the pressure of her daughter in the school must not small, they tell the teacher said: I saw her grades, the language in front of two similar test in English was better than the previous two, physics,cheap UGG boots, chemistry is double-A, the first two There was B, it should be said, there is progress. Only mathematics, this is her strength, this time about twenty difference of points on the math teacher is not to ask, why? Math teacher was not because I did not communicate with them, home, the situation calmly with her daughter said. Daughter said she had communicated with the math teacher, and her title because when saving steps, so the points deducted. I said, it does not matter ah, later required to do each step on the line was set. This is a case for treatment, generally the parents, to see such a large decline in short-term results, three months short of the high exam, will be anxious lit, there may be scolded child, but I still a few from her exam to see her progress in a timely manner to encourage her. This is our consistent philosophy of education: good boy is the boast out!
confidence is more precious than gold, huh, huh.
still need to reflect that Why do want to say this, is a high school for three years gave me the impression too. A child can not be perfect, a good place, there is insufficient, sometimes we see her good side, she is a good boy; see the difference where is the poor child. Therefore, the learning poor children, not necessarily a bad child; and learn good child, not all the people have peace of mind.
daughter, poor self-care, lack of knowledge of life, which is not a big problem when a small, but high school is already a big girl, and then this to be justified. In high school, want to change, first the formation of habits, and the second is out of time. There is with people concerned, together with the students, saying ah trouble ah, very cheerful, and the elders together to impress. We are both inward-looking, well aware of the inadequacies of this character, so when the daughter, she intends to develop a number of cheerful, outgoing, some, but human nature, or very difficult to reform. At this point, we have only half the battle.
less than many of her, perhaps to the university, the environment of a force, it will get better.
Sometimes I am envious of someone's home children. A colleague baby, my daughter was smaller than a few months, learning medium, but very independent, learning, life is not the parents control - sometimes too busy. Each exam is over, go shopping, play, its own way. I say this is not fine you. He admired my children to learn well, I admire his independent and strong baby. There is also a daughter of the students, learning is also good, but not highlighted in the Olympiad classes, a look that is a capable person, very calm and generous words themselves in society, had been a junior high school student council, high school is the group secretary in the class, class there are many things to discuss with her daughter to do. There she was a good friend in junior high school, learning is very general, but according to her daughter said, do not Xianlei shopping day - I would not appreciate the girls love shopping, but that should be life. Girls Do not be so tired, can not live easier.
Conclusion
Again, her long way to go, and now only just started, four years of college, there is an unknown work, life, and I hope that she no longer has the burden of , forget the past glory, the sense of learning, an ordinary man living happily work enough.
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